How to stretch my butthole?
i need to stretch it so that it dosent hurt when i take it up the butt can you please give me ideas to help i am really scared it is going to hurt?
i am a girl and not gay
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Lickensy Dickens
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Damn It is all mind over matter. Get him to give you a massage which will relax you and help with the sex. If you are relaxed and you take your time the sky is the limit. Do not stick fruits and veggies up your bum.
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gaston82...
Physicologically it's going to hurt, the best thing to do it to try to stimulate yourself or have your partner do it vaginally, that way it can help to deal with the pain, also, use lubrication and ease into it by using fingers, toys and other things. Also, us e a postion that you can control the depth, force, etc....
PS--If you are doing this alot, you may want to do a little research int owhy your boyfriend/husband/ partner, is SO into anal sex.....
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coffeebe...
take it verrry slowly inserting a little bit and until you're comfortable, then wait and then go a little more. then when it feels right, go for it. it can be all pleasure : ) and very little, if any, pain that way
your muscles are capable of relaxing enough to take a penis just don't force it.
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crtbryn
Okay I had one chick wanting me to do this to her and she said that I needed to take it slow and lube myself and her up really good taking it real slow allowing the muscle to get used to the object then slowly inserting that is the key if the dude rams and jams it in your going to have major pain accoring to jane my GF at the time
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jeff b
Yes you can stretch it using toys or even some vegetables.
Start with a small cucumber then after a while move up to larger cucumbers. Eventually you will be able to take all of your bf with no problems.
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ckongphe...
no pain no game jk make your boyfriend go slow and keep going until your comfortable with his penis in your trunk
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Robert J
Use lube and your finger to begin with, then purchase an anal spreader or anal specula. That will stretch it out. You can buy one at: www.medicaltoys.com
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Sindy
you can buy anal dildos.
oh and it does not hurt if he used lube and is gentle.
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chris.ch...
Eat a ham sandwich
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Vampire Prince
use lubrication and ease into it by using fingers, toys and other things
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Bimbad
poppers loosen the anus
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