Being the "cause" of someone else's marriage

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:26 pm

I'm sure there are others here who have had experience with this.

So last night I was talking to an old girlfriend...I had been talking to her before, last year, when she suddenly broke off all contact and then I saw that her current BF proposed to her and she accepted. LOL but also: ruh-roh. Vague sentiments of wrongdoing on my part...I found out last night that yes, she married him and he proposed to her after logging into her email/FB accounts (asshole) and seeing our messages to each other. So I feel terribly guilty about this, of course, not in the sense of interfering with her relationship (fuck this current guy) but in the sense of...being the cause of someone else's marriage.

Any of you have similar experiences?

Dr Yail Bloor · Post by **Dr Yail Bloor** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:28 pm

he logged into her mail/fb? fuck that guy.

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:29 pm

Yeah, fuck that guy...but it's understandable.

Well...okay, not really. Jealousy makes people do crazy things...

From Blintzes to Crepes · Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:29 pm

I've been the cause of a couple divorces.

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:29 pm

From Blintzes to Crepes wrote:I've been the cause of a couple divorces.

Hahahaha...yeah.

Dr Yail Bloor · Post by **Dr Yail Bloor** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:30 pm

its sad and crap, whats even worse is instead of having it out with her he proposes? What a fucking fairy this guy is!

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:30 pm

People still believe that marriage solves all problems.

Yeah, I know...but I don't really know what to say.

Dr Yail Bloor · Post by **Dr Yail Bloor** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:32 pm

the fact she said yes is fucking tragic, zero self esteem?

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:33 pm

Dr Yail Bloor wrote:the fact she said yes is fucking tragic, zero self esteem?

Ummm...looking out for her kids, I think.

Dr Yail Bloor · Post by **Dr Yail Bloor** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:34 pm

Bored, Esq. wrote:
Dr Yail Bloor wrote:the fact she said yes is fucking tragic, zero self esteem?
Ummm...looking out for her kids, I think.

ah you never mentioned kids, nothing makes a woman more desperate to wed/settle than kids.

kmfcm · Post by **kmfcm** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:35 pm

it's not your fault he autocorpsed

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:36 pm

Dr Yail Bloor wrote: ah you never mentioned kids, nothing makes a woman more desperate to wed/settle than kids.

Sure, it's just survival.

But these days...I don't really understand why people get married or why they stay in marriages where they hate the other person. I understand it's complex and it isn't easily talked about, but...ack...

I feel bad for putting her in that situation, though...

I don't know one single person who is in a happy marriage.

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:37 pm

kmfcm wrote:it's not your fault he autocorpsed

True. And I endeavor to see it that way...

Dr Yail Bloor · Post by **Dr Yail Bloor** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:39 pm

Bored, Esq. wrote:
Dr Yail Bloor wrote: ah you never mentioned kids, nothing makes a woman more desperate to wed/settle than kids.
Sure, it's just survival.

But these days...I don't really understand why people get married or why they stay in marriages where they hate the other person. I understand it's complex and it isn't easily talked about, but...ack...

I feel bad for putting her in that situation, though...

I don't know one single person who is in a happy marriage.

you do now, my wife rules and i am as happy as a pig in shit.

Brian P. · Post by **Brian P.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:39 pm

She's got kids, spoiled meat. That dude's a sucker.

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:40 pm

Brian P. wrote:She's got kids, spoiled meat. That dude's a sucker.

He's just another stupid man. They're thick on the ground.

And Bloor: good. I hope you stay that way...

kmfcm · Post by **kmfcm** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:42 pm

Bored, Esq. wrote:
Dr Yail Bloor wrote: ah you never mentioned kids, nothing makes a woman more desperate to wed/settle than kids.
Sure, it's just survival.

But these days...I don't really understand why people get married or why they stay in marriages where they hate the other person. I understand it's complex and it isn't easily talked about, but...ack...

I feel bad for putting her in that situation, though...

I don't know one single person who is in a happy marriage.

I know ONE happy couple
and I know ONE guy who is in a happy marriage

neither involves an American woman

and you actually put her in a GOOD situation
marriage ONLY benefits the woman

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:42 pm

kmfcm wrote:
Bored, Esq. wrote:
Dr Yail Bloor wrote: ah you never mentioned kids, nothing makes a woman more desperate to wed/settle than kids.
Sure, it's just survival.

But these days...I don't really understand why people get married or why they stay in marriages where they hate the other person. I understand it's complex and it isn't easily talked about, but...ack...

I feel bad for putting her in that situation, though...

I don't know one single person who is in a happy marriage.

I know ONE happy couple
and I know ONE guy who is in a happy marriage

neither involves an American woman

Hahaha...yeah, exactly.

eyehatethehumanrace · Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:43 pm

one of my girlfriends left me for another guy, who in turn was nothing but abusive towards her. I guess what goes around comes around.they divorced and she remarried, to a nicer guy who gets along with me pretty well. oddly enough, we're friends to this day. I'm not bitter.

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:46 pm

eyehatethehumanrace wrote:one of my girlfriends left me for another guy, who in turn was nothing but abusive towards her. I guess what goes around comes around. oddly enough, we're friends to this day. I'm not bitter.

Okay.

But I don't know why you posted this in this thread.

Oh, and:

SPOILERSPOILER_SHOW

eyehatethehumanrace · Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:48 pm

Bored, Esq. wrote:
eyehatethehumanrace wrote:one of my girlfriends left me for another guy, who in turn was nothing but abusive towards her. I guess what goes around comes around. oddly enough, we're friends to this day. I'm not bitter.
Okay.

But I don't know why you posted this in this thread.

Oh, and:

SPOILERSPOILER_SHOW

?

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:48 pm

Yeah, this thread sucks. My fault.

Gunther · Post by **Gunther** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 1:00 pm

From Blintzes to Crepes wrote:I've been the cause of a couple divorces.

I'd like to know how many that you've actually caused. You fucking jerk.

Bored, Esq. · Post by **Bored, Esq.** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 1:02 pm

I'm guessing this guy has caused all kinds of divorces:

Sexy beast.

Friendly Goatus · Post by **Friendly Goatus** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 1:57 pm

It's so awkward to see you try and be nice to everyone, Bored. It's like every nice post of yours has a palpable sense of violence just underneath the surface.

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